It is very easy to take a decision on the basis of emotion, but it is very difficult to stick to it. This is applicable to some parents who take the decision of becoming foster parents.
It is not an easy job as it sounds. Children differ and their attitude also differs accordingly. Different children have to be taken care in different ways.
If a child’s parent is in hospital and you are taking the decision to take care of the child till the parent returns then you have to stick to your decision till the needed time.
Else both child and real parents get affected negatively. Please consult an expert who knows about the system of fostering well (for seeking advice) and then come to a decision.
After thinking well you have now decided to become a foster parent. This thought is well appreciated as it shows that you care. Some advices are given below for helping you in making your job easy.
Try Short term foster care first: Why not try taking the responsibility of foster parenting for short time initially? This helps you in understanding whether you are really OK with taking care of someone else’s child. If you loved the experience, then slowly go for long term fostering or for taking care of disabled children (mentally or physically disabled).
Be prepared to leave: Are you an emotional person? If yes, then chances are more for you getting attached to the child. You have to understand the fact that child is there with you only for some time. Be prepared to leave the child when right time comes. Love and make the child happy when he or she is with you.
Have a plan: Try to create good habits in the child when he or she is with you.
Hopefully the abve tips and advice will help you a lot. For some more helpful foster parent advice you may check the site here.