If you are wondering where that zeal went and how your married life can changed from exciting to mundane, ten it is high time you make some changes to your married life. It is best to agree the fact that as years passes by and you get drowned with responsibilities, you get hardly any time to catch up with your spouse. Life takes over and there is hardly any romance left between office, leading to a bored married life with kids and increasing responsibilities in the shape of utility bills and chores. You neglect not only your health but a healthy relationship of with your partner making your life dull with nothing to look forward to at the end of the day.
Spice up your married life
With the help of some simple tips and a little attention, you can spice up your marriage and get back the lost charm and touch of magic in your married life. It can again be like the old times. You just have to nurture and water the suppressed love for each other and bring on the romance. Even if you tired and busy the whole day, try to manage some time to spend with each other at night without any distraction. It does not have to be something too heavy. Just a casual chat or catching up with your spouse, sharing the activities of the day and some fun-sharing can add theta zing to your life which seemed lost upon you.
Take time off from children
When children happen, they take up the attention the attention for your spouse takes the backseat. Even if you realize the fact, then also due to family pressure and need of the children you cannot find any time for your spouse. Put the kids to beds half hour easily and spend that time with your spouse. What you do with the time to spice up your marriage is up to your imagination but please make it worthwhile and exciting. Switch off all technology, whether cell phones, TV. computers or anything and give undiluted attention to each other. Do cozy things such as snuggling up in bed or talking a shower together or anything that catches your fancy and see how it makes a difference.
Show affection to each other
In the midst of busy schedules you often miss out showing love and affection to your partner. It might sound cliché but you often forget to say it out loud to your loved one. You need to express your love and affection to your partner more frequently to come out of the boring married life phase. Hold hands, find excuses to kiss or peck each other and hug more often. Bring back the intimacy you two shared before and re-live the love that once brought you together in the bond of matrimony.